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Parent Cue Weekly :: 9/25/17









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September 2017 – Week 4 Elementary Parent Cue

 SEPTEMBER

           2017

WEEK FOUR:


1 THESSALONIANS 5:11
JOB 2:11-13

Encourage One Another

SAY THIS:


Friends encourage one another.

 

DO THIS:

MORNING TIME


When you first see your child in the morning tell them, “Rise and shine! Today is a great day to be a great friend!”

REMEMBER THIS:

“A friend loves at all times. They are there to help when trouble comes.”
Proverbs 17:17, NIrV

LIFE APP:  
FRIENDSHIP – Using your words and actions to show others you care

NEWS:

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From the Parent Cue Blog:

INFLUENTIAL
By Carey Niuewhof


Earlier this week we said that one way to see where your children are heading in life is to look at their friends and the people who influence them. Your closest friends are a preview of the future you.

Now, I totally understand that will cause some of us to worry. Not that we need another reason to worry–many of us hardly have difficulty finding reasons to panic. But read on…help is closer than you think.

If you’re worrying, what do you do? After all, there’s an organic quality to friendship that you just can’t manage. As much as parents love to control things, we can’t really influence who our child likes.

So what can you do to encourage your child to move in a different direction relationally? The younger they are, the more influence you have on their relational circle. But one day our kids will be on their own and 100 percent able to choose who they hang out with. What do you do between the toddler and college years that’s healthy and not overbearing?

Here are a few suggestions:

Have an honest conversation. It’s not unreasonable or overbearing to talk to your kids in their early elementary years (and every few years after that) about the importance of their friends and how they impact the quality and direction of their life.

Create conditionsYou can’t control a child’s every moment as they move into the teen years (nor should you try to), but you can create conditions for healthy relationships. Create stricter limits (tighter curfews and parameters) when the friends they are hanging out with are questionable, and freer permissions when they are with kids who exercise better choices is a fair strategy. It’s probably more important to be generous with the “good” influences than it is to be especially punitive with the questionable influences.


 

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